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Getting a Domestic Violence Order of Protection

by Chicago Divorce Reporter on December 7, 2010

In Cook County, Illinois, the forms a victim needs to file to obtain a “domestic violence oder of protection” can be found online as part of a service called TurboCourt (find the Cook County forms here).  If you do not live in Cook County, Illinois, you will have to use a different method to obtain an oder of protection.

If you want to obtain an order of protection against someone with whom you are in a domestic relationship,  you should consider the following:

  • Filling out the Forms – Speed vs. Secrecy: Filling out an online form can be quicker and easier than going to court and filling out a form by hand. However, you should seriously consider accessing the form from a computer to which your abuser does not have access. This way, your abuser will not find out, through your browsing history or otherswise, that you plan to get an oder of protection.
  • Location of Court: When you go here to fill out your forms, you will be asked to choose a location, or the District of the court for your city. Later you will be able to find the addresses of the court you choice. If you have problems locating the address for the court you should go to in oder to file your papers, call the non-emergency  police number for your city and they will be able to tell you.
  • Submitting the Forms: You do have a valid order of protection once you fille out the forms. You must take the forms to the appropriate courthouse, go through an intake procedure where clerks ask you questions about the information you filled out, then schedule you to go before a judge that same day (so long as you did not get there too late). Information on who files a request for an order of protection, the fact that an order of protection exists, and more, is public record.
  • Testifying: You will appear before a judge and the juge will ask you qustions, based on the forms you filled out. Essentially, you will be repeating what you put on the forms. The entire hearing before the judge will most likely take under ten minutes.

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Is your Chicago divorce lawyer prepared for the deposition?

by Chicago Divorce Reporter on November 30, 2010

Depositions are of keen importance, whether you are the one being deposed, or your lawyer is deposing the opposing party. Depositions are essentially interviews lawyers can conduct of parties to a lawsuit. Only parties can be compelled to give depositions, but other people can be deposed if they agree.

Depositions in child custody and divorce cases are key. Why? Because of perjury. Perjury is hardly punished in family courts, and willing parties make full use of perjury by lying about facts and making false allegations.

Chicago divorce lawyers that are fully prepared for the deposition  of the other party are a valuable asset to their clients. Clients in Illinois divorces who have divorce lawyers that seem unconcerned with the deposition should consider whether that Illinois divorce lawyer is going to sufficiently represent them. While depositions are not necessary in every Illinois divorce, when they are necessary, they tend to set the stage for what is to come later.

Purposes:

  1. Lock-in: In child custody cases, you can use a deposition to “lock in’ an opposing parties testimony. In other words, once a party affirms or denies something during a deposition, that person will look like a liar if she says something different when testifying in court. Hopefully, your lawyer will be able to harm the other party’s credibility, and depositions can assist in that effort.s
  2. Preview:When you go to court, you don’t want any surprises in terms of what the other party will say. And, testimony given in family court can be quite “creative” in terms of its relationship to the truth. Therefore, depositions play a vital role in helping to figure out what the opposing party is going to say before it’s said it court. That way, your lawyer has time to strategize, prepare, and help fight any harmful statements the other party might make.

If you are looking for a family law attorney, he or she should give you some idea what preliminary actions he will take. If a deposition is not recommended, you might reconsider your choice of attorneys. Not deposing the other party is a major strategic blunder, as you give up the benefits noted above. If you think a deposition is not necessary because your custody or divorce will not be very bitter, I have one recommendation for you: get a lobotomy.

Do you want to go to court and be surprised when your Ex accusing you of domestic violence? Of drug use? This would be a bad situation, and you should decrease the probability it will happen by conducting a deposition.

You cannot afford the risk of wrongly assuming a deposition will be unnecessary. If it becomes necessary, and you don’t have one, or you do one much later than you could have, your case could be irreparably hurt.

Preparing:

Depositions can cost several thousand dollars. While everyone’s circumstances are different, you should try not to let this cost dissuade you. Being involved in a law suit and not seeking the most strategically beneficial position is much more costly. If you don’t want to do what is necessary to achieve your goal, you should settle, or give up.

Aside from cost, you should also make sure you and your attorney are fully prepared for a deposition because you only get one shot. If you go to a deposition and the best questions are not asked, you cannot normally schedule another.

Therefore, you may want to take the following steps in preparing for a deposition:

  1. Know what is relevant: Child custody and divorce cases involve highly persona matters. People involved may tend to think that because information is meaningful to them, it is meaningful to the case. However, that is not always true. Therefore, you should discuss with your lawyer what information is relevant. Then, you can help your lawyer address relevant facts in the deposition.
  2. Create a deposition prep sheet: This involves creating a list of the pertinent facts, and predicting the other party’s responses to your attorney’s questions.
  3. Discuss with your lawyer: You should discuss a deposition with your attorney. If you attorney is unwilling to discuss the deposition with you, then consider hiring a different attorney. You know more about the other party than the attorney, and that valuable information should be fully utilized.
  4. Updating: If you develop new information after discussing the deposition with your attorney, update the attorney on what you’ve come up with.

Nothing said in this article is written in stone. Be ready to adapt, and hire a lawyer your trust. A good lawyer will help you address the ideas listed in this article.

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Chicago Divorce Gazette: Illinois Divorce information, attorney referrals

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Improper Incentives: the dynamite behind many child custody battles

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The problems surrounding sharing custody of children can be explained in terms of inappropriate incentives. Until all incentives for using children as weapons are removed, parties will continue to do so. Improper incentives are truly the dynamite behind child custody disputes. Removing the incentives to use children as weapons can be done in several ways. [...]

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